July 14, 2021

I’m 85 & on Bumble to find love after splitting with man, 39

A GLAM 85-year-old gran has revealed she is once again looking for love after splitting from her 39-year-old toyboy lover.

Pensioner Hattie Retroage, from New York, said she is now on dating app Bumble in a quest to “find some fun”, and calls herself a “sexy woman.”

Glam gran Hattie Retroage is on the hunt for a younger man, and is looking for love on Bumble

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Glam gran Hattie Retroage is on the hunt for a younger man, and is looking for love on BumbleCredit: Facebook

Divorcee Hattie vowed to only date younger men after her marriage broke down when she was 48.

Speaking to Fabulous, Hattie said: “I’m not dating anyone now.  Will be posting on Bumble, as some friends have met men there. 

“I’ll be starting to date again now that I can be intimate, and enjoy making love again! (at 85!)

“I’m thrilled that my sex style is turning the tide. It’s not only the old guys that enjoy young women – we are turning the tide! 

Divorcee Hattie vowed to only date younger men after her marriage broke down when she was 48

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Divorcee Hattie vowed to only date younger men after her marriage broke down when she was 48Credit: Facebook
In 2018, she starred in the Channel 5 show Age Gap Love with her then-lover John, who was 39 - but they have since split

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In 2018, she starred in the Channel 5 show Age Gap Love with her then-lover John, who was 39 – but they have since splitCredit: Channel 5

“Yesterday morning I got a call from a young guy in Israel to tell me he had a crush on me. So cute!”

Hattie used to go on three Tinder dates a week with toyboy lovers decades her junior – and claimed: “I have never met a man who doesn’t want to f*** me.”


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However, she revealed that Tinder and dating website Match have since blocked her profile, so has been forced to download new dating apps. 

Hattie split from her ex-husband in 1984, then in her 50s, because she felt he hadn’t worked hard enough to get her kids into college.

The self-confessed cougar and mum-of-two, who has three grandkids, is a former dancer and now works as a life coach and writer.

Hattie hits herself with medicine balls to help her take the 'impact' of young lovers

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Hattie hits herself with medicine balls to help her take the ‘impact’ of young loversCredit: Channel 5

In 2018, she starred in the Channel 5 show Age Gap Love with her then-lover John, who was 39.

But she confirmed she is now single once again and looking for a new partner. 

Hattie said: “I stopped seeing John after our Age Gap Love Tampa TV appearance.  It was fun anyway.

“The comments by viewers were hilarious.”

I’ll be starting to date again now that I can be intimate, and enjoy making love again! (at 85!)

Hattie Retroage

Now the springly American is working on a book, Cougar Chronicles, to inspire older women to enjoy young guys (and vice versa).

Hattie has been very open about her sex life for years, and once even put an ad in the paper saying she wanted to sleep with men under 35. 

She said it proved to be a success and she was instantly bombarded with requests.

Hattie used to go on three Tinder dates a week with toyboy lovers decades her junior

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Hattie used to go on three Tinder dates a week with toyboy lovers decades her juniorCredit: Channel 5

She told Femail men her age weren’t able to please her in bed, because they’re “not adept at giving women orgasms”.

The New Yorker, who’s been single for over 35 years, normally dates blokes in their 50s and says sex isn’t always a guarantee.

Hattie said: “We go out for a drink, and if the chemistry is right, we go to my apartment, and if not then we just leave each other.”

She once put an ad in the paper saying she wanted to sleep with men under 35 – and was instantly bombarded with requests

The self-confessed cougar and mum-of-two, who has three grandkids, is a former dancer and now works as a life coach and writer.

Hattie has been very open about her sex life for years, and once even put an ad in the paper saying she wanted to sleep with men under 35

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Hattie has been very open about her sex life for years, and once even put an ad in the paper saying she wanted to sleep with men under 35Credit: Channel 5

Hattie split from her ex-husband in 1984, then in her 50s, because she felt he hadn’t worked hard enough to get her kids into college.

And she’s got some blunt advice for women following the menopause.

She said: “The sex tip I’m giving people is masturbate for God’s sake. You must keep the engine going whether you feel like it or not… Keep that alive.”

Hattie also loves porn and recommends congratulating your partner when he’s aroused, as well as swimming and fitness classes to keep fit.

She says her daughter Rana is amazingly supportive but her son Josh and his wife “hate it” when she talks about sex.

She keeps fit with an amazing regime which involves her lifting a 12lb medicine ball and rolling it across her stomach and then smacking it into her chest.

She said: “My medicine ball has been my closest companion for 35 years. It prepares my body for impact. It’s great for sex because it means your body can take a lot of whatever.”

The pensioner got quite saucy when asked why she likes to date younger men.

She says her daughter Rana is amazingly supportive of her dating younger men

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She says her daughter Rana is amazingly supportive of her dating younger menCredit: Channel 5

She said: “When people ask me why I like younger guys they always figure it’s a hard c*** or something. I’m not saying it’s not that.

“However an older man, generally – he was this, he once played rugby, he was a top football player. 

“He had all those dreams and I love those dreams but he had them already.

“A young man is fired up about what the future holds and I can keep that fire burning.”

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